Encouraging
Lateral Thinking!
I cannot find positive proof of the parentage of my
3xgreat grandmother Sarah HOLYFIELD who has led me a merry dance over the years,
but I can through other information make a very educated guess as to her
origins.
The first clue was that when
John and Sarah married by Banns at Appleton in Berkshire on 4 February 1822,
they both had the same surname of HOLYFIELD, both were single and of that
parish. Neither of the witnesses
had any direct bearing on the family as far as I have been able to ascertain.
John was easy to fit into my family.
I had traced my great grandfather Herbert HOLIFIELD through the census to
Faringdon in Berkshire, where he was born on 25 July 1858, but his parents had
not decided at registration on a name for him, so he comes as “male” at the
end of the HOLIFIELD listing. His
name was discovered from the Faringdon Baptism Register.
His parents were John, a plumber, and his wife Millicent.
I found the family at Block Green in the 1861 census
for Faringdon, together with six children, their aged ranging pretty evenly
between 1 and 12. I therefore
searched for John’s marriage before 1849, and quickly found an entry in the
GRO indexes for the June quarter of 1848. So
far so good. I didn’t give a
cross reference to Millicent as his wife, which was just as well as when the
certificate came, I found it referred to a completely different woman, Eliza
GREEN, whom John had married at St Ebbe’s Oxford on 7 May 1848!
Oh dear! A
bit of rethinking was needed, and a search for the death of Eliza and a later
marriage to Millicent proved successful. Eliza
had borne the four eldest children named in the 1861 census, and Millicent the
two youngest, later to add another two. Eliza died from the effects of childbirth a few days after
the birth of their son Robert in August 1853, and on 7 February 1856 John
married Millicent BATES, again at St Ebbe’s in Oxford.
I do not know where the children were in the meantime, but I suspect with
John’s father in Appleton.
From the census I discovered that John was born in Appleton in Berkshire, a
parish that runs beside the south bank of the Thames to the west of
Abingdon. His baptism was
duly found there on 31 July 1825, the son of John, a labourer, and Sarah, the
couple whose marriage was recorded there in 1822.
I had by this time a lot of information on members of the HOLYFIELDs (under
various spellings) in the Berkshire/Oxfordshire area.
I knew that the elder John of Appleton, baptised in 1798, was the
penultimate child and eldest surviving son of Richard HOLYFIELD and Nanny
TREADWELL, who were married at Appleton in 1783.
Richard had been born in Northleigh in Oxfordshire in 1756, one of the
children of William HOLYFIELD and Hannah HAINES. Richard seems to have been
rather poor at first, as he was the recipient of occasional help from an
Appleton charity, but by the time he died in 1826, he described himself as a
yeoman, and owned a property in Burford, Oxfordshire, which he left to his son
John.
But where does Sarah HOLYFIELD fit in?
I found out that she died in 1834, and her tombstone in Appleton
churchyard gives her age as only 31, thus making the year of her birth 1802-3.
She died leaving John with four young children aged between 11 and 3,
William, John, Charlotte and Richard, so it is not surprising to find in the
1841 census for Appleton that John had a housekeeper in residence.
She was Caroline HOLYFIELD, and the 1851 census gives the additional
information that she was then aged 38, unmarried, and born in Burford.
Tantalisingly Caroline’s relationship to John is given as “housekeeper”,
so I was little wiser about her connection with John or Sarah. There seemed a
possibility that the two women were sisters, as who but such a close relative
would step into the breach and bring up another woman’s family without the
security of marriage? Of course if
she were Sarah’s sister, John would be unable to marry her anyway under the
Church laws of consanguinity then in force.
Even John himself in his will proved after his death in 1855 refers to
Caroline only as his housekeeper, leaving her the very useful sum of £100.
Although no trace has been found in the Burford parish registers of a baptism
for either Sarah or Caroline, there was one HOLYFIELD family living there from
1802 when William, a cooper, was married in the parish church to Elizabeth
SMITH, whose father was a plumber and glazier in the town.
William was the nephew of Richard of Appleton, being the eldest son of
his brother John HOLYFIELD of Milton under Wychwood.
It seems that the Burford and Appleton HOLYFIELDs kept in close touch over the
years as both Richard and his son John (Sarah’s husband) refer in their wills
to a house they owned in Burford High Street, Richard stating in 1826 that it
was occupied by Elizabeth HOLYFIELD, presumably the spouse of William the
cooper. In 1832 ownership of the
property, which was left to him by his father, entitled John to vote.
Maybe it was bought by Richard when William the cooper died in 1819, not
long after the birth of his youngest child, William Smith HOLYFIELD.
William and Elizabeth had a number of children whose baptisms are recorded in
the Burford registers. The first is Charlotte (1804), then Charlotte Smith (1806),
John (1808), Elizabeth (1810), Keziah (1815) and finally William Smith in 1818.
Of these the first three were buried at Burford as children or young
unmarried adults. There are
certainly convincing gaps between these dates into which Sarah and Caroline
would fit, their presumed years of birth being 1803 and 1813.
In other links with Appleton, we find John and Sarah’s son John serving his
apprenticeship in Burford with William SMITH, Elizabeth’s brother, in the 1851
census. Elizabeth HOLYFIELD, a
sojourner, married Stephen GARDNER at Appleton in April 1834.
He was a shoemaker, and the grandson of a witness to the marriage of
Nanny and Richard. Was she the
Elizabeth baptised at Burford in 1810? It
seems highly likely, and no other candidate has come to light.
She sadly fared no better than Sarah, as she died at Milton in Berkshire
in 1847 aged 37, leaving three young children.
Another Elizabeth HOLYFIELD, a widow, married John
STONE, a widower who lived at Appleton, at St Ebbe’s, Oxford, in 1835, “with
consent of friends”. One of the
witnesses was Jane TREADWELL, a member of Nanny’s family. Both parties were buried at Appleton a few years later.
This Elizabeth may well have been William of Burford’s widow, she is
not remembered on William’s tombstone in Burford churchyard.
In a final link between the two places, William Smith HOLYFIELD, the youngest
child of William and Elizabeth, moved to Appleton before 1841, where he appears
in the census aged 20 living on his own. He
settled there for the rest of his life, working as a glazier, marrying
and producing a large family with many descendants. He died in March 1875.
When John HOLYFIELD died at Appleton in 1855, he left his house to his daughter
Charlotte (named after her mother’s dead sisters?), and in the 1861 census we
find her living there with Caroline. Now
for the first time a relationship is mentioned, Charlotte being described as
Caroline’s niece. Shortly
after this Charlotte married her cousin Stephen HOWSE, son of her father’s
sister Jane, but she died in 1866 and is buried at Appleton near her parents and
grandparents.
Caroline’s whereabouts in 1871 are unknown, she was not in Appleton nor
Eynsham, across the Thames from Appleton, where she died in 1880.
Her youngest Appleton charge, Richard HOLYFIELD, had set up in business
there as a plumber. Before this he
had gone to London where in 1857 he married his first wife Ann JAGO, who died at
Eynsham in 1869. Perhaps Caroline
went to help the bereaved Richard with his young family as she had for his
father. On her tombstone in Eynsham
churchyard she is described as the “beloved aunt of Richard HOLYFIELD”, a
lasting tribute I feel to the love and devotion she must have given him
throughout his life, acting as the mother he never knew.
When Richard took out Letters of Administration for Caroline’s small estate,
her next of kin was stated to be Keziah JAGO, widow.
Keziah HOLYFIELD, William of Burford’s daughter, had married Thomas
JAGO at Moorfields Roman Catholic Chapel in London in 1845.
Perhaps Richard’s wife Ann JAGO was a relative of Thomas, whom he may
have met when he visited the family at their home in Pimlico?
This is the only proof linking Caroline with William of Burford, and it
somewhat ironic that it is found at the end of her life and not the beginning!
As Caroline’s relationship has been given as aunt to both Charlotte and
Richard, and their father John had no younger sisters, she could only have been
related thus through their mother Sarah HOLYFIELD.
Despite the lack of evidence, I feel through the process of deduction and
elimination that this is Sarah’s place in my family, as the eldest daughter of
William and Elizabeth HOLYFIELD of Burford, and thus the first cousin once
removed of her husband John HOLYFIELD. This
link between the Appleton and Burford HOLYFIELDs had a profound effect on the
lives of both families which were inextricably linked through marriage, work,
property ownership and finally by death, but throughout I am sure by love.
Ann Luntley nee Holifield